HAVE THE CONVERSATIONS THAT MATTER!
Relax tension patterns and staying more open to the true possibilities in every relational moment.
Optimize your individual style strengths and learning to use the particular connection gifts of your personality type more consciously and effectively.
Expand your communication skills and response options in challenging moments.
Transform difficult moments with your significant other into powerful forward movement in the relationship.
Clear up blind spots with the life-enhancing practice of staying curious in the relational field and using the exciting, problem-solving ”permanent beta” approach in your relationship.
Move into the kind of mindful, truly wise interpersonal action that can create success in every area of your partnership.
Understand the Strengths & Challenges that Each of Your Personality Styles Bring to This Particular Part of Your Relationship Journey!
What’s Your Enneagram Type & Wing?
Reformer, Helper, Achiever, Individualist, Investigator, Loyalist, Enthusiast, Challenger, or Peace-maker? (Integrating Eternal Scriptural Truths with the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Insight Approach)
How are Your Top Needs Organized?
Certainty, Variety, Significance, Connection, Growth, Contribution? (The Robbins’-Madanes Enneagram Type Growth Model & Riso-Hudson Enneagram of Personality Level of Development Work)
What’s Your Conflict Resolution Style?
Positive Outlook, Emotional Intensity & Honesty, or Competency-Focused? (The Enneagram Institute Harmonics in Challenging Conversations)
Where Do You Like to Recharge?
Introversion (“I Need Alone Time”) or Extroversion (“I Need to Get Out and See People”)? (MBTI I-E Scale & Your Relational Ennea-style)
How Do You Like to Make Decisions?
Thinking & Facts, or Feeling & Values? (MBTI T-F Scale & Your Relational Ennea-style)
How Do You Like to Take in Information?
Your Five Senses (Concrete Data) or Intuition (the Possibilities)? (MBTI S-N Scale & Your Relational Ennea-style)
What is Your Desire for Closure?
Not so Much (Staying Open & Perceiving), or Gotta Have it! (Finishing, Making a Judgment)? (MBTI P-J Scale & Your Relational Ennea-style)
Your Instinctual Values Stack?
Self-Preservation (Homeostasis & Comfort), Sexual (Chemistry & Expansion), Social (Bonding & Community)? (Your Enneagram Instinctual Variants Stack & Your Inner Values Autopilot)
What Stage of Partner Life are You in, and What Does that Mean in Terms of Where You Most Need to Put Your Energy Right Now?
Bonding, Talking, Doing, Being, Teaming? (The Bader-Pearson Developmental Stage Work for Couples)
What are the Natural Life Management Skills that You Bring to Your Partnership System?
Producing Results, Administrating for Efficiency, Entrepreneur-ing for Long-term Effectiveness, or Integrating for Unity? (Madanes & Adizes PAEI Roles in Family Connection)