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Couple Fusion

1+1=1=Fusion=Divorce!

RELATIONSHIP BUILDER: Fusion is NOT Unity!   1+1=1=Divorce… Because One of You is Redundant in the Dance! FUSION & THE DIVORCE VIRUS:  Developing the powerful force of unity and the mature ability to allow interdependence in couple life are signs of a healthy relationship.   While unity is a powerful and healthy spiritual force in couple life, fusion…

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Couples Coaching

The Essential Happiness Tool for Couples: Being Able to REPAIR After a Disconnect!

RELATIONSHIP BUILDER:  HAPPINESS IS Being Able to REPAIR! The Gottman Institute, Research & Think Tank for Couple Health, has some really good news for all of us!  THE ESSENTIAL HAPPINESS TOOL FOR COUPLES IS BEING ABLE TO REPAIR AFTER A DISCONNECT. The “good relationship” defined:  It’s not how many errors we make in our connection…

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Novelty

Novelty & the Sexual Instinct Can Kick us Out of Autopilot Couple Mode!

SHAKE THINGS UP – USE YOUR INSTINCTUAL ENERGY Kick Your Relationship Out of Autopilot Mode Regularly! TALK ABOUT SOMETHING DIFFERENT, CHECK OUT THAT EXOTIC NEW RESTAURANT, GET TICKETS TO HEAR A NEW LOCAL BAND…. Wear Red, Turn on Loud Music While You’re Cooking Dinner Together, Go Skydiving Together, Try Ballroom Dancing, Take a 1-day Silent…

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Date Dr.

When You Say ‘No’ to a Narcissist…

Important Question from a Reader: “What Happens When You Say ‘No’ to a Narcissist?” “My narcissist ex came over my house to get his things and tried to have sex with me. I said NO! He unleashed his rage by being mean and ignoring me. Then when all else failed he asked me for some money.…

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Jealous of His Job?

Hi, Dr. Ronna Here! Readers Often Ask Me What I Think They Should Do When Their Partner Seems Preoccupied with Work…. It’s Time to Look at Our Control Issues in Romance! Dear “Jealous of His Job,” I get it; one of the hardest things to do in a romantic relationship is to let go of…

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“I Just Don’t Like….”

…A Reader Asks! “What if I Just Don’t Like Her as Much as She Likes Me?” Dear “Low on Liking Her,” That is a great and beautifully honest question! Very often we don’t hear from the guys on this side of this relational equation. And I think you nailed the reason we don’t! Those automatic…

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Video: HOW TO STOP ARGUING, & START SOLVING PROBLEMS TOGETHER!

_________________________________ RECIPE FOR HARMONY –  HOW Couples Can Show Up with all Their Important Differences & WORK AS A TEAM When Conflict Arises! Understand how you typically approach conflict! Recognize what is most likely to trigger conflict in your relationships! Appreciate BOTH the types you naturally resonate with, and the types you do not naturally resonate…

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BEING & TEAMING!

Healthy Styles of Happy Couples Part 4 & 5 THE BEING STAGE OF COUPLE DEVELOPMENT: The Naturally Elegant Dance of “Moving Close and Moving Away,” that leads to… THE TEAM: A new level is reached through synergy, where we find “One Plus One is Greater than Two!” THE PREPARATION FOR THE BEING STAGE:   When we…

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“Consent!” The Brits Help Us Understand it!

The Brits Explain “Consent” in the Most British Way Possible! CLICK HERE: Watch the Video! The UK police explained “consent” to their population in this very British way!   Excellent Watch! What “Consent” IS and IS NOT!  (From the National Domestic Violence Hotline) Well, How Does It Work? Some people are worried that talking about consent…

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