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More on the Levels of Personality Development

“You have probably noticed that people change constantly—sometimes they are clearer, more free, grounded, and emotionally available, while at other times they are more anxious, resistant, reactive, emotionally volatile and less free. Understanding the Levels makes it clear that when they change states within their personality, they are shifting within the spectrum of motivations, traits, and defenses that make up their personality type.”

“… two people of the same personality type… will differ significantly if one is healthy and the other unhealthy.” (Reproduced with permission from the Enneagram Institute, All Rights Reserved, the Enneagram Institute Website, 2005,

The Riso/Hudson Levels of Development:

The Structure of the Continuum of Levels
Level 1
The Level of Liberation
Level 2The Level of Psychological Capacity
Level 3The Level of Social Value
Level 4
The Level of Imbalance/ Social Role
Level 5The Level of Interpersonal Control
Level 6 The Level of Overcompensation
Level 7
The Level of Violation
Level 8The Level of Obsession and Compulsion
Level 9The Level of Pathological Destructiveness

Used with permission from the Riso-Hudson Enneagram Institute, All Rights Reserved 2005


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